Tuesday 28 February 2012

Deaf culture is on its path to destruction.

Mind you if you want to criticize my grammars then so be it but please bear with me. Yes, I have been struggled to write grammar properly. It seems to that I understand more of vocabularies than it is with grammars.  This is where I will stand that I do admit that therefore no need for somebody took this advantage and belittle me.  LOL.

After recently incident after what those extremist or big D had achieved, I feel that I am being prompted to write another blog because I noticed that those particular people who tend to think they are right. I really have no problem with that but yet they do need to understand one other’s perspectives. Often from what I understand that most of those extremist or big D would get angry and fire back with personal attacks like what Adrian Mack did with someone else because she expected everyone to follow one‘s thought.

Remember that we live in the country where we have our diversities and have much different opinion as per freedom speech. I can share with you with one of my favourite hobby, an art. I went to art gallery once in while, I saw many different arts posted there. I must admit that I hate 95 percent of them but I reversed myself and asked myself why do I hate those arts? It is just because I dislike their colors, graphics, and their thoughts.

Ahh speaking of thoughts, I backed myself out and realized that I need to respect those artists for their desire putting something on a white and blank piece of paper or cloth. All artists are not the same. Some use their expression, some use observation from anything, some use emotional. Those arts are supposed to make people guessing something and determine why they are putting their own ideas on this sheet of paper or clothes.

That is where I learned and understand that everybody has their own different opinions but that is not what I saw in those big D or extremist. I will permit if they felt that they are activism instead of extremist. Still -ism or -ist are considering the same. I usually do not permit anything related to this in my dictionary because they are vague to our own eyes and cause too much misunderstood.

It is okay if you feel that you should think differently. I have no problem with that but to fire back or personal attacks won’t solve anything that will always led into dividing or power in the rank. I watched how well they behave in debating show. I understand that those men/women who think so much different but they get along during this debate. This is the purpose for the people out there to decide what it is best for them not by forcing them to follow.

From what I had observed, we are on the path to destruction.  I have a deaf parent; I asked them how they felt from being deafness in old days. They admitted that they never thought about it. This world in old days was doing just fine. Everybody respected one others and the world understood how we deaf people were living until…. deaf hood came or until extremists or activism came. It was coined in 2000 and now it is on its path to destruction. I used to pride being deafness I would tend teasing my hearing friend that I have many advantage for being deafness, for instance, sleep well, or loudly nagging from wife.

I knew several couples who have deaf children. They realized that it was so much angry and miserable world in our culture. I must admit that I am no longer pride being deafness now because of what they had acted.  I tried to convince one of family. They tried to send her child to deaf school but within two years, this frustrated parent decided to take their child out and send her for mainstream. I, later, discovered that those extremist are pushing them off the cliff. It is considered very embarrassed for me because I encouraged them for the better but actually it is worsen for them. I refused to encourage any parents with deaf children into anything again.

Speaking of cliff, now those extremist or activism and their behaviours are enough to push parents of deaf children off over the cliff. They thought they would get away with but instead of in this abyss, there are many services and opportunities for those deaf children as if to “FIX” them. Those parents of deaf children are no longer interest to send their child to deaf school or learn ASL because of their angry culture.

May I ask you an extremist or an activism, supposedly if you are at other side? What would you observe? I observed that it is on its path to destruction.